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How I Save Money AND Live My Best Life

By  La Shell Reid Hoilett

How I Save Money AND Live My Best Life

Well of course I did not heed to the advice of many when I got my first job, which was, to save money. *insert rolls eyes*. Now I’m here just wishing to erase the memory of the time I spent my entire pay check on an outfit to go to some random party, ooof! I cringe.

Let’s just say that I learnt my lesson pretty fast and realized I had to make some drastic changes in order to save money but still have a life. I always say I’m not gonna be one of those people who save save save, but have nothing more. No travel, no friends, no nothing, just money sitting in a bank account. No ma’am! Money is made to spend and that I shall. How I spend it though, is where I can win, or lose. And here’s how I save money while having the life I want.

Setting Goals & Priorities – How would we know what we’re aiming for without them? I set a goal for everything. A trip, a house, an eye shadow palette. Everything. That way, if I don’t stick to plan, it is apparent. It holds me accountable and gives me either a pat on the back or a stern side eye telling me to buck up! As for priorities, I save according to priority. Things that always are high up on my list are travel, retirement and an emergency stash.

Frugality & Bargaining – I have no shame in saying that I am very frugal. I think long and hard before I purchase anything and I make sure I’m getting it at the best possible price. If your goal is to save money, you have absolutely nothing to lose with being frugal. And I don’t mean cheap. Hunting for the best price doesn’t mean skimping on quality. It just means getting the most for what your money can buy. I also never purchase something (especially expensive items) without either waiting for a sale or asking for a discount/bargain. There is nothing to lose and no shame what so ever in doing that. I will say though, that I don’t haggle on price for artisan items. When I purchase products and services from smaller businesses, I pay what they ask for.

Keeping low maintenance – So for like hair, skin, nails, beauty, yada yada, I budget and spend only a certain amount in this area. I spread out bigger purchases but overall, I spend very little here. I buy good quality items that will do its job and last me a long long LONG time. No sporadic and ad-hoc spending because these things add up very quickly and if you calculate the yearly cost, you just might pass out. Cutting back on this in particular saves me a lot of money.

On Entertainment and eating out – This is planned and budgeted for every month. Going for a couple drinks can easily run you into spending hundreds in one night. To keep things tight in this area, I turn down many offers to ‘hang out’ or give an alternate option to get together. My household is pretty easy to entertain so this area never run us much.

On needs and nice to haves – Wants and needs are important equally in our household. Yes we have our needs covered, but to be happy, some nice to haves must be in the mix. I can’t say this enough, but balance is key if you’re to save money, on anything.

Budget, budget, budget – Before anything else, I do this. Without a budget I’m dead in the water. There are many apps to choose from that can help you. I always keep it running and up to date. I also always pay bills first, assign savings and THEN do everything else with whatever remains. And it works.

These may all seem trivial or clichéd but practicing these, allows us to save for travel multiple times a year, prepare for retirement, have a little cushion/ wiggle room in case of emergency and have that super expensive cup of coffee when we feel like it.

So tell me, how do you save money while living life?

Thanks for stopping by!

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10 responses to “How I Save Money AND Live My Best Life”

  1. I love this post! I am definitely living my best life – especially when I compare myself to others around me that are my age – but I am still great at saving and looking at the bigger picture, and many of the reasons how are the ones you’ve listed here. Frugal is my middle name, but honestly my partner and I are totally homebodies so that gets rid of the need to spend money on night outs and expensive dinners, other than special occasions. I love that you’re helping to educate people on the fact that they CAN live full lives, whilst also saving!

  2. I definitely budget too when it comes to pampering. I normally, do it myself… I’ll do my own hair, nails, etc. Every now and again I’ll treat myself to a spa treatment. But it’s a great way to budget and I have an 8-year-old daughter so we turn it into a fun day of doing nails together, playing with makeup. It’s a win-win!

  3. Ana says:

    This is such great – and practical – advice! One of the things I always do before a purchase is, how many hours would I have to work to buy this? And then I ask myself if that item is worth XX hours of work to me. I usually decide it isn’t.

  4. Annaliese says:

    I just moved out of state for a new job and have been trying really hard to stick to a monthly budget, and do budget check-ins every couple days. So far, so good!! It literally pays to be financially smart. 🙂

    xoxo A
    http://www.southernbelleintraining.com

  5. Marisa says:

    These are such great tips, I recently started concentrating on this more! Instead of getting my nails done I bought a nail polish for a $1.99 and did them myself!! It felt nice that I was saving, but I needed more tips so this post is right on time!!! Thanks!

  6. My husband does our budget and he’s SO GOOD at it – it keeps us so in check!

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